![]() ![]() ![]() (btw, thanks for bothering to read this far, i didn't mean to write so much.). he is now telling me that this desire and 'need' has always been there since before we were together and that it is a part of him and will always be there. the 'thing' this time, is about him wearing women's underwear. after various medications, counselling, even yoga and meditation groups, various things have surfaced which he claimed were the reason for his depression finances, his job, HUGE issues with his mother and his childhood, in turn we have tried to work together and talk through these issues, but every time, we sem to be making some kind of progress there's always 'another thing'. ![]() He has been suffering from depression for some while, but has only been officially diagnosed and prescribed ADs since January this year. i told him all of this at the time, to which he appologised for taking it too far and said he wouldn't bring it up again or put any pressure on me. (god i feel so stupid actually writing this down.) about 18 months ago, maybe more, the subject of wearing underwear started to come up too often and i felt like he was putting too much emphasis on it and it was not fun anymore, i felt there was pressure on me to partake in something that was a very occassional bit of silliness after a few glasses of wine, and it was now becoming intrusive element in our relationship that i didn't really enjoy. My husband and i have been together for 11 years, married for 7 and have three chilren (9, 6 and 4) we have always been quite open minded with attitudes towards sex and till about 3 years ago, had a good sex life - there have been a couple of times in the past when we have been silly and he's put my underwear on. I have looked through the forums looking for anyone else who has these problems but i can't find anything, i just hope that someone is or has been in the situation i am in and can help me. I have been desperately looking for some kind of help about this and no matter what specialist chatrooms and sites i look at, I just want to come back to netmums because it feels safe. ![]()
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